Monday 29 February 2016

Life ! Are you living it for yourself or for others ?

When a child is born he spend his 2 years to play, learn to walk, learn to speak.
Then he is made to follow to crowd like everyone else does.
He is sent to school to get education.
He is trained to compete other guys of his age on the basis of marks.
He never takes risks just because he fear FAILURE.
Whenever he tries to do something new, the first thing that comes in his mind is that, "What will my friends say if i fail?"
"The society will call me a failure."
"My parents will scold me."
And instead of taking that wise step he moves on. And kills his dream.
He is taught what to think not how to think. He is always told that IIT and AIMS are the only best places u can visit. If you get admission in IIT you will get a good job. And your life will be successful and a lot less stressfull.
For all that education is the key.
He kills his dreams and studies so hard and get till the IIT. but never bothers about his dreams. He keeps his dreams for tommorow. When he gets a job  he says my first dream is complete. And now i will focus on my second dream. But he fails because he has no time left for that.
He spends 10 to 13 hours a day in his office working. And gets home spends time with his family and forgets his dream. After he gets married, he teaches his child to follow the same plan as he did and move along with the crowd.
When he gets old and gets retired from his job. Sitting on the deathbed he realises that he had one more dream to accomplish but dur to his old age his not able to fulfil them.  He regrets those decisions and steps which he didnt took. And died.....

98% people on the Earth have the same life. Getting up going to school/job. Come back take rest. Have fun. Sleep.

But there are 2% of those people on the earth who followed their dreams and are owning 50% of the Earth's wealth. They lived their lives for themselves and Never worried about others thought of them.

Look,
I dont say that schools are evil and there is nothing to learn.
But
Education is not about filling the heads. Its about inspiring ones minds.
We all have different experiemces and thought processes, genes ..  then why a class full of individuals is tested by same means.
Why a student has to study those subjects which he will never ever use in his life ?
Students!
How many equations, subjects and dates did you remember just before an exam never to use again?
How many "A" grades did you get, which are never asked when applying for a job?
They all test us with tests but the finals are never finals because they never prepare us for the biggest test which is survival.

One of the biggest problems are parents!
Yeah, Parents are the hardest people to please.

You study for 16 hours . Neither anyone sees nor appreciates. But if you just pick up your ipad, ipod or you cell phone just to see the time.. you are supposed to listen a line. Which says," You hardly study in a day. You are always online on fb, whatsapp. Or always playing that clash of clans, 8 ball etc. You will fail" and a couple more things.
After this scene you are filled with anger and all your concentration is gone and you keep thinking about that all day.

To those parents whose son spend all day playing games on that xbox and ps3.
Well did you knw that there are thousands of people on youtube making money by doing the same and million opportunities in industries related to game. Have you ever touched the controller or cultivated interest ?

Most of the people, on their deathbed, regret what they didnt did in life. They scold themselves what if they did that ?
But at that time they are too late.

So, live your dreams.
If you take big risks you will have a big life.
Hardwork is not about getting "A" grades in exams. Its about doing those things which once seemed impossible.
Face failure.
And please see.. if you are not getting failure is life then you are on the wrong track. And if you are facing failure one after the another then you are on the right track.
I once saw a picture on fb of a man digging, then why give up if you were this close to the box of diamonds.
Only some people can find the stairs of success but only a few of them have the guts/courage to climb.
Take risks, as much as you can. So when you are on your death bed you are seemed to be laughing at what all things you did and the risks you took....
You can do everything in life.
You are a champion.

Stay foolish, stay funny
Never take life too seriously.
Love everyone. Spread happiness.. have the courage to follow your dreams.
Dream bigger. Dont worry how will you achieve it. Just keep focusing on your goals. And do one thing everyday that scares you.
Take one step everyday. And you will reach your destination.

When you reach your destination and look back you will say," DAMN! That was too easy."
And the ones who didnt took risk will just regret.

Because there are 2 types of people in this world the one who are AMAZED and the one who are AMAZING.

So which one are you!

Don't Judge Someone So Easily ! - Social Sites Fool You.

There are girls with 500 likes on their pictures who are extremely lonely and there are girls with 10 likes who have many friends.

There are boys posting so much, who don't talk at all. There are girls, posting so many pictures with big smiles, yet crying alone in a corner every night.

There are rich kids posting pictures of the new places they go, new food they try, and then they are the ones who end up driving alone back home.

Thereare people posting quotes about friendships twice or thrice a day, waiting for someone to atleast talk to them.

There are people posting motivational stuff, waiting for someone to just ask them, "Is everything fine with you?"

There are people, checking in at different clubs/restaurants and hoping they can find a genuine person once in their life.

There are girls, always smiling, laughing, making jokes, yet trying hard to stay alive every day.

There are people posting "Good morning" everyday, who don't know the reason they wake up daily.

DO NOT LET SOCIAL SITES fool you.
Don't judge someone so easily.

Sunday 28 February 2016

Who is a Teacher ? The one who Teaches or the one who Motivates.

When you ask someone, who is a teacher?
He/she replies, the one who teaches us...
Is the person who teaches us is called a teacher?
According to me
Its NO.
A teacher is the one who not only teaches but even motivates his students.
Lets take an example:
There are 2 teachers in a school...
The first teacher teaches the students , gives her lectures and go.... a student in her class unfortunately fails.. the teacher scolds him... call up his parents and says, youre child is a failure he cannot do anything... his life is waste.. he is poor in studies and cannot have a bright future..
She demotivates the child badly.. and depresses him... and the boy who failed started feeling low and started losing him temper soon ...... and ruined his life..

The 2nd teacher comes to the class teaches the students and gives a motivational lectures at the end of her class and doesnot leaves the class until all the students have cleared their doubts... a student in her class failed . She went to the boy, sat next to her. She didn't scolded her but motivated her. She told her to work hard, and realise what qualities he lacked. She gave him extra classes, helped him get through the chapters, lessons and giving giving him extra knowlege .... she helped the child in working hard by supporting him and during the next exam result day the boy who failed, topped the class and the teacher was too happy.. and blesed the child..

So, who according to you is true teacher?
Think !

Why do we study? To build our dreams or someone else's.

Your parents always say study! Study! Study!
Why?
Ever thought ?
They say you need to study to get a job.
U need to study to become successful.

Is that it ?

Are you satisified?

Look at this....
In India, almost every student wants to crack IITs, AIMS, AIMPT, PMT, IIM, etc
You may ask any non-medical student,
Whats you dream?
He will reply - IIT
Some of them get admission in IIT while some of those who dont get admission gets depressed, drop an year or even Suicide...
Why?
Coz of family pressure, societal pressure.
The child is being compared with others on the basis of exam result card..... No one sees what talent he has? What experience he has?
If he failed in exams he has failed in his life? And most parents use their children just to show the world that my son in engineer in so and so company.. he earns this much money.... but some parents support their children. Talk to them and ask what are their goals, what are their plans, how will you achieve it?

What are we all studying for?
To earn money
But some of you will say , i dont study for money...
So what are you studing for, to work for the charity?

Students today have dreams to clear IIT.. but they dont know what actually dream is???
They need a job working for someone else and getting paid for that.....
This means you are working for someone else to build their dreams and getting money for that... how much money Rs.1 crore per year or 2 crores or 3.....

Recently Samsung Launched Galaxy S7 and the CEO was interview..
Did somebody ever asked who were the enginners behind them....
The CEO earned Billions(+ $1,000,000,000/-) and enginners got just some amount..
The company is building its dream and you are helping to build it... everyone knows who is STEVE JOBS, BILL GATES, HENRY FORD, etc.. does  anyone knows that IITian who designed it?
No?
That is it ....
Build your dreams... work for yourself..
Look at these satistics..
Steve Jobs - net worth 7 billion R.I.P
Richard Bransom - net worth 4.2 billion
Orph winfrey - 2.7 billion
Mark Zuckerberg, Henry Ford, Bill Gates, Steven Spillsbergy, Jesus, Shakespeare, Beethoven, Mother Teresa, Socrates, Malxolm x , jesse owens,Michael Jordan, Muhammad Ali, Sean Carter, Michael Jeffery Jordan , Michael Joseph Jackson, Picasso, etc
Looking at these satistics, Whats you conclusion?
Neither of them in being successful ,
Evver graduated from a higher learning institution.
Were either of these people unsuccessful or uneducated?
its not important that you are an IIT or an uneducated.. All matters ia that are you following your dreams? Are you satisified with your life?

Now its upon you whether to fulfil your dreams or help someone else build their dreams.........

I failed in my Exams what should i do....

You failed in your final 12th Board Exams...
For the society you are now a failure. For them you are nothing except a piece of shit.
Exams are society's method of telling what you are worth but you can let society tell who you really are?
For the society, the student who istopper in exams, studies well, get all those "A" grades is the only kid who could get success in his life.
No, he is not the only one..
This society makes you feel down by letting you think all the negativity and all the shit that happened instead of thinking how could you solve the problem, How could you work hard, how could you achieve success ? ...
Most of us worry about the society ... what will he think if i do this ? What will she say if i did so and so? What will happen if i raised this question? Etc etc bullshits....
U worry for others.... are you living your life for them.... ?
Theres a saying that "If you dont build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs."
So get up!
Reassess you motives and recognise you aims...
work  hard, even harder, climb those hills, prove them wrong.. prove all those people wrong who say you are worth nothing... you are dumb. Show them who youare, prove youself. Be the change. Hit the earth damn hard.. if u fall 100 times you should have enough strength to wake up 101th time.. go ahead live your dream world...
Dont sleep ... fulfil your dream.. bcoz life is not what we know.. its beyond the usual.
And dont worry about exams .. they cant change your fate if you prove yourself..
#peace

Care for those who once cared for us

A son took his old father to a restaurant for an evening dinner.  Father being very old and weak, while eating, dropped food on his shirt and trousers.  Other diners watched him in disgust while his son was calm.

After he finished eating, his son who was not at all embarrassed, quietly took him to the wash room, wiped the food particles, removed the stains, combed his hair and fitted his spectacles firmly.  When they came out, the entire restaurant was watching them in dead silence, not able to grasp how someone could embarrass themselves publicly like that.  The son settled the bill and started walking out with his father.

At that time, an old man amongst the diners called out to the son and asked him, “Don’t you think you have left something behind?”.

The son replied, “No sir, I haven’t”.

The old man retorted, “Yes, you have!  You left a lesson for every son and hope for every father”.

The restaurant went silent.....

Shake your problems off

A man's favorite donkey falls into a deep precipice; He can't pull it out no matter how hard he tries; He therefore decides to bury it alive.

Soil is poured onto the donkey from above. The donkey feels the load, shakes it off, and steps on it; More soil is poured.

It shakes it off and steps up; The more the load was poured, the higher it rose; By noon, the donkey was grazing in green pastures.

After much shaking off (of problems) And stepping up (learning from them), One will graze in GREEN PASTURES.

A Motivational Story

A 24 year old boy seeing out from the train’s window shouted…

“Dad, look the trees are going behind!”

Dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby, looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity, suddenly he again exclaimed…

“Dad, look the clouds are running with us!”

The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…

“Why don’t you take your son to a good doctor?”The old man smiled and said…“I did and we are just coming from the hospital, my son was blind from birth, he just got his eyes today.

Every single person on the planet has a story. Don’t judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you.